I am a conservative, but I cannot defend status quo. In my mind, status quo is nothing to fight for in it self. Conservatism has, in fact, never been about preserving status quo - except, probably, in the minds of some conservatives who does not think much about political issues.
Conservatism is about preserving the good things in society, but also about promoting changes for the better, as long as we can be reasonable sure it is an improvement. Conservativism is about never accepting change for the pure sake of changing that which exists.
Society needs time to adjust to new ideas. Conservatives want to give society that time.
I believe in equal rights for any sexual minority, as long as it does not involve anything but consenting adults. Homosexuality is sex between consenting adults.
There is an important point made by Thane:
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Anyways, my problem has little too do with "homosexual rights" and everything to do with leaving marriage between two specimens of the opposite sex. I see no sense in calling two things that are so obviously different the same thing.
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In Sweden, we have had what you could call same sex marriages since the early 1990's. The type of contract provided by statute on this is equal to the common ("different sex") marriage in every aspect and for all practical purposes, except that the law does not call this contract "marriage". The contract is called "registered partnership".
Every homosexual person in Sweden is not satisfied with the solution by the Swedish legislators. Some want to be able to marry, even though entering registered partnership is, de jure and de facto, the same thing. Others say they marry when entering registered partnership. Well, maybe in some decades, language has changed, so the meaning of "marriage" means both "different sex" and same sex marriage. In that case, I can understand if the law is changed in order to reflect the current language. I am, however, always opposed to attempts at changing the meaning of words through legislation.
I believe the concept of "registered partnership" could be adopted in the USA as well, as it has been in Sweden, Denmark, and some other European countries.
There is two more things I would like to add.
In Sweden, registered churches and other such religious unities have been able to marry people for a long time. Some people want the legislators to force them to perform registrations of partnership as well, or forfeit their right to marry people. I believe this is wrong. Why should a church be forced to perform a service which is contrary to its beliefs and teachings? Why, also, would anybody want to register his/her partnership in such a church?
Some people have said we should do the same as in Germany, where officially sanctioned marriages can only be entered into in front of government officials, thus ensuring that everyone who has the right to marry people also has the right to register a partnership. (Swedish Government officials having the right to marry people cannot nowadays deny to perform registration of partnership.) Why shouldn't a priest, reverend, rabbi etc. be able to perform the act of marrying people with legal effect, when they marry them anyway? The German way (as I understand it) is ridiculous - religious people have to marry twice, in church and before a government official.